A couple who is going through a divorce asks the nurse how to disclose this news to their 4-year-old child. Which would be the nurse's best response?

"You should take your child to see a psychiatrist to break the news."

"You should not discuss it with the child until after the divorce is final."

"You should ask the grandparents or another relative to break the news."

"You should sit down and calmly explain the situation to your child."