A nurse is caring for a client who is receiving cognitive behavioral therapy. The client tells the nurse, "Nothing good ever came from my marriage." To best support cognitive reframing, which of the following responses should the nurse offer?

"What were the bad things that came from your marriage?"

"What did you learn from your marriage to help you in the future?"

"Did you have any romantic relationships prior to your marriage?"

"Only you can understand how your marriage has negatively affected you."