Amanda is a 42 y.o. female who is married and has 4 school age children at home. She has chronic pain associated with fibromyalgia and is afraid of taking opiates. She does not have any knowledge of options and is unsure of how to manage her day to day pain. She seems withdrawn and has voiced her concerns that her physical complaints have put a strain on her husband and being able to care for their children What is the nurse's best response to get Amanda to open up about her specific concerns and help her explore her feelings?