Take time for yourself and the other relationships that you care about.
Saying "no" to things involving the care of your mother is a selfish action.
You made a promise to your mother that you need to keep.
Involve your mother in the decision making process.
Moving your mother into a care facility will show her that you do not love her.
Helping your mother should be easier than raising a child.
Avoid discussion of negative situations that may occur in the future
It is okay not to love or like your mother when you are feeling overwhelmed